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By Robin Westerik

There is a reason cultivating trust and safety is one of the International Coaching Federation’s core competencies. Trust is an irreplaceable ingredient in building a strong foundation for effective coaching.  Coaching strategies fall flat without trust between coach and client.  So how can a coach create trust and safety in a coaching engagement? 

One of the simplest yet most powerful ways to build trust is for the coach to be authentic. This means being your, admittedly sometimes imperfect, self.  People can sense when someone is being real, so it is important for a coach to show up with vulnerability, humility, and a willingness to learn alongside their client. When a coach is sincere, clients are more likely to feel comfortable sharing their true thoughts and feelings, which is essential for building trust.

Active listening is another key component of building rapport in the coaching relationship. This means giving your undivided attention to what your client is saying without distractions or interruptions.  When a coach shows genuine interest in a client’s experiences and challenges, clients feel heard and validated, which can be a powerful trust-builder.

Consistency, reliability and ethical practice are also critical factors in building trust. Clients want to know that they can count on their coach to follow through on commitments such as scheduling regular coaching sessions or delivering promised resources and support. When a coach is dependable and consistent, clients feel secure knowing that their coach has got their back.  When a coach is transparent about their commitment to coaching with integrity, they center the clients needs and grow trust. 

Building trust and rapport in the coaching relationship is essential for achieving successful outcomes. By being authentic, actively listening, showing empathy, prioritizing consistency and reliability, and committing to ethical integrity coaches can establish a strong foundation for effective coaching. Trust is built one interaction at a time so coaches should focus on creating meaningful connections with clients and positive coaching engagements.

Dr. Robin Westerik is the President of Madison Education group. She likes to learn new things and play outside.